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Women Should Consider These Three Things First When Getting Advice

Just like everyone else, young women need help from time to time in dealing with various aspects of life. Being the more emotional and sentimental of the two sexes, women usually turn to their loved ones, friends, and partners to seek advice and tips. Unfortunately, not all advice, tips, and opinions are pure and honest. You never can be too sure that everyone you seek advice from will have good intentions because there always will be one who has ill motives towards you.

Now if you happen to be a woman seeking advice about life in general, it helps if you put some weight on these three factors first before doing so:

1 – First things first, figure out why you’re in need of advice in the first place.

The idea here is for you to really understand and acknowledge that you can’t decide on a specific issue or problem on your own. So whenever you figure that out, that’s the time you make the realization that the only possible means of handling whatever it is that bothers you is by seeking someone else’s advice. One thing you must completely avoid is seeking advice not because you need it but because you just want everyone else to know you have some issues or problems you need to deal with. It’s a common occurrence in social media and you definitely don’t want to be labeled as someone who possesses victim-mentality attitude. The reason why you want to avoid this is because you’re just trying to get sympathy from others and it could lead to some form of attention addiction. Hence, you must make it a point to seek advice for the reason that there’s value in it.

2 – Next thing you need to factor in is the person to whom you plan on getting advice from.

Yes, it’s true that you should be seeking for great advice, but it also is important that you consider the value of trust you have in the person you’re getting it. A lot of people will be more than interested in listening to you, but only a select few will be genuinely interested in giving true advice. Be smart in selecting the people you seek advice because some of them might only be willing to listen so that they can hear what you have to say and then talk about it to other people. Aside from your most trusted friends, you also can get advice from professionals such as therapists, psychologists, and psychics, all of whom are experts in giving advice about life in general.

3 – Lastly, learn how to identify a great advice.

You do have to understand that not all tips you get from people are true and of great value. So before you act on an advice given to you, be sure you know that there is something good that could come out of it.