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Romance in the Right Perspective

Romance is going out of your shell by expressing your innermost affection in a meaningful way. Many would say that romance is about love, yet even love is elusive, and, if that be the case, how should one go in finding romance? Finding the right romantic partner is often a difficult journey, for several reasons.

Dealing with yourself

Feelings are informational, meaning that it lets us know whether we love ourselves, abandoning ourselves, or others are either loving or controlling. Now that you’re beginning to understand your feelings, go further by moving towards those feelings rather than going away from it dismissing it by staying focused more on your thoughts or judging yourself. It may be difficult at first, but when you initiate inviting your love into your heart, you consciously open the possibility of learning about loving yourself. Once you have open up your heart towards your feelings, explore further the fears and false beliefs about how you think about your ego-wounded self. If you have experienced being heartbroken, lonely or helpless over someone, find out within you and understand what is causing the pain. The answers will just come in words or images or in dreams; when your heart is open to learning, the answers will come. Then take the loving action of allowing time to heal the shame, anxiety and depression, and overtime, loving yourself and connecting with yourself is the key to loving and connecting with others.

Follow your own path

Beginning to live a life that you desire from the very start will actually make you attractive to people who share the same views.

Looking for the fantasy partner

Be grounded as to be down-to-earth in looking for the right partner, instead of fantasizing a partner who is just a product of your own imagination. When you drag yourself into that fantasy world, you start altering your behavior towards the appeasement of that hypothetical partner, in the hopes that someone will fit into that fantasy mold. The effect will allow you to wander away from reality and from the real path in your life.

Take action

The laws of attraction is a mystery and yet very compelling, so that it just means that waiting for your destined partner in life will just turn up in the right time. Act now and be socially involved by going out on dates, making more friends, and being socially visible.

Start getting rid of your baggage

Get the load of your emotional baggage out of your system, so you can start fresh and begin to flourish with new hope in a new relationship. As soon as you have learned how to open up and have come to love yourself, there should be no evidence of heaviness as you have also begun to let go of your emotional baggage.

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